
Open and Affirming
"With God’s grace, we resolve to be an open, inclusive, affirming, and
accessible community of faith."
Quote from FCC’s Open and Affirming Covenant
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FCC Manchester is an Open and Affirming (aka "ONA") church. Our congregation publicly affirms lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBTQ+) people, welcoming them fully into the life and ministry of the church. Additionally, our Open and Affirming Covenant promises to fully welcome and affirm people of all ages, all races and ethnic backgrounds, people with disabilities, and “other diverse attributes that are woven into the fabric of humankind.”
News from the ONA Team
December 2024
“I hope we’re here to respond to the challenge
to be good neighbors and to ask ourselves what that means.”
Thoughts offered by a Book Discussion Participant
Twenty-five people joined in November’s Conversation and Book Discussion, based on Kevin Nye’s, Grace Can Lead Us Home, A Christian Call to End Homelessness. The theme of how we are called to respond was the throughline of the conversation. We were joined and led by Pastor Chris, Covenant Partner Randy VanDeventer, and FCC Friend and Choir Member, Pat Long. Each of the leaders shared many thoughts and concerns. A few highlights are included here…
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Pastor Chris shared his personal practice of walking in our neighborhood and interacting with the unhoused. He emphasized, “I hope we can be part of the solution. I feel like the biggest way we can help in this struggle is to humanize them.”
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Pat Long shared his years-long efforts on behalf of the homeless and talked about one of his hopes - that a public restroom will come to fruition in Manchester. He shared ongoing political and societal challenges to find resources, adequate housing, mental health support, and the need to act in ways that help this population feel heard and seen. He challenged us to avoid using derogatory terms, such as “vagrants,” but instead, remember how many of the homeless have been evicted due to rising rents. Among his many points, he reminded us to engage with our homeless brothers and sisters with kindness and respect.
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Randy challenged us to confront the fears, hatred, and discomfort that we carry, and consider our society’s failure to provide affordable housing and good-paying jobs.
He said, “We know how to solve the problem. We don’t quite have a handle on how to prevent homelessness, but we do know how to respond to make it go to virtually zero. And that is low or no-barrier housing. Obviously, details are more difficult, but we know that it works.”
Overall, participants seemed ready to build on current FCC efforts for those in need. Many in the group showed definite interest in learning effective ways to engage with the unhoused. Pat talked about the Engagement Center on 39 Beech Street. Randy suggested, “The next time we pass someone on the sidewalk. say hello and good morning. Learn their names.” Pat and Chris shared important news of a Faith-Based Coalition of clergy that Pastor Chris and FCC have been hosting for several months. The clergy are working on ways to coordinate and collaborate. They announced a training for Homeless Support that was held on November 16 at the United Methodist Church on Valley Street. As of the Window publication date, we know that several FCC folks planned to attend.
Participants agreed to continue to work together in our faith community and seek ways to collaborate with other churches to support and make a difference. Toward the end of the discussion, Liz Verity pointed out that “We don’t often hear the success stories.” Noel Villiard shared the good news of a young man he’s known for years that now has an apartment. Two of our FCC members shared their personal, courageous struggles with homelessness, how hard it was, and talked about their journeys to the security of having safe homes.
Author Kevin Nye wrote that Jesus “went around to people suffering from scarcity – of health, of acceptance, of power, of understanding – and replaced it with a gift of abundance,” p. 161.
Members of the Open and Affirming Committee humbly ask, “How can we do the same?”
Blessings for Advent and Merry Christmas!
June 2024
“We light the flame of commitment,
To stand with and work to create change,
Until all know they are beloved.”
From the first stanza of “The Flames of Love,”
By Kim Lloyd Reisch, 2021
The Open and Affirming Committee is planning for FCC’s participation in the Manchester Pride Festival, coming on June 15th at Veterans Memorial Park on Elm Street, and for observing Pride in worship on June 16. Our faith community has been represented at Pride events since 2018. Each year brings new connections, new opportunities to grow in awareness and understanding, and many reminders of how important our messages of love, acceptance, and welcome are to the LGBT+ community.
Despite last year’s rainy weather, FCC volunteers had a great day, connected with scores of participants, and spread the word about our faith community. Please consider joining us as a volunteer. A sign-up sheet is posted on the office window. We have multiple shifts listed for the afternoon and arrange for small groups to work together during the various times.
During Pride Month, we look forward to displaying two new wind-resistant banners, designed by our own Adam Peithmann. We’ll also display the eye-catching banners at our booth on June 15th.
The Open and Affirming Committee has not planned for meetings during the summer months. However, the group is exploring further study and conversations about challenges for people who are mentally ill and those that are homeless. Some of us are reading the book recommended by Randy VanDeventer, Grace Can Lead Us Home. Author Kevin Nye shared thought-provoking points about what home means.
However crucial the role of housing in ending homelessness, we cannot forget that the experience of being homeless also means a loss or lack of the many things we associate with ‘home,’ things as indispensable as safety, belonging, dignity, and hope. p. 23
We will continue to ask ourselves how we, as Christians, can help transform lives and bring feelings of belonging, dignity, and hope to those that live on the margins of our society.

May 2024
Thanks to Covenant Partner Rev. Randy VenDeventer for leading a thought-provoking, faith-based, and inspiring Conversation on April 14. Randy invited us to engage in spiritual reflection - considering how we view those who are mentally ill and to focus more on their humanity rather than on the discomfort and fear we may feel. The participants asked great questions and Randy’s responses led us to deeper understanding and thoughts about what else we can do as a faith community.
The Conversation was recorded and is posted on the FCC website. This link offers you the chance to watch and learn more about the challenges of acute mental illness and how mental illness is tied to another of societal challenges - housing shortages. (Click here to watch). Randy also suggested several resources that may address the question, “What else can we do as a faith community?”
Grace Can Lead Us Home – A Christian Call to End Homelessness by Kevin Nye United Church of Christ Mental Health Network Mental Health Network - UCC
We are blessed that Randy is a Covenant member of First Congregational Church and the NHCUCC. We thank him for bringing his faith to his work as NH Hospital’s Chaplain.
The committee’s May meeting date and time will be announced in FCC publications. Volunteer opportunities and news of the Open and Affirming Committee’s plans for Pride Month in June will be published in Friday Link, Sunday News, the June Church Window, and on the website.
April 2024
Rev. Randy VanDeventer will join us during worship and for an after worship Conversation on Sunday, April 14 at 11:30 am in the Recreation Room. His focus will be on those who struggle with mental illness. When Randy preached at FCC in August 2023, he shared a story about Jesus that is relatable – where Jesus was learning, reflecting, and experiencing a time of growth in dealing with someone on the margins of society. We can relate – as we deal with our own discomfort, fears, and worries about mental illness that we encounter in our families, with our friends, and in the community.
Randy is an ordained UCC pastor and serves as Chaplain at NH Hospital, an acute psychiatric care facility. As with previous Conversations, he will offer a short presentation, followed by a time for Questions & Answers
and discussion. Once again, the Open and Affirming Committee will offer a light luncheon during our time
of Conversation. To help with luncheon planning, a sign-up sheet is posted on the office window. Everyone is invited to join us on April 14h, whether you’ve signed up or not.
If you would like to join us via Zoom, copy and paste this link in your web browser:
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/86908406921?pwd=cGtBdVM2amIvK0ovZTMzVTJDaUsxZz09